I know how long his residency lasts. I don't think we are going to end up being friends but I'll get over that. Because Utah mormons are waayyy different than mormons everywhere else. We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended. Heavenly Father will give you guidance if you listen with an open heart and contrite spirit as always. I too feel that I am becoming a mistress to his own career. Some of the guests talked about the importance of helping hard core mormons to be open and accepting to ALL their brothers and sisters in the church, regardless of sexual orientation. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead. I am the wife of a general surgeon in his mid 50s. She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church.
Everything we do when we are together seems to be pre-planned and must be executed just so, right down to unexpectedly turning off the lights at And I can relate to the walking on eggshells feeling when they are home. And we are not bloody married yet. He is a great doctor and everyone loves him great that makes it easy there are always going to be flirty women if you are not a strong women then run. I usually mean exactly what I say. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. I thought she would grow out of it. Sorry, you can't reply to this topic. You will be expected to condone but not attend events in the temple to which you will not be granted access. Best to all of you, and may God Fate help us all. No one should feel excluded from the House of the Lord.
But there are a lot of women who post here who have flipped from TBM to apostate. Maybe more convinced than you are. I was thinking the same thing when I read this. I am particularly tied to an area because of family and friends and he was set on selecting a list that was best suited for his career, not me. I know some people don't like the sound of "working for a relationship", but it can be so rewarding. Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start. They were taught that bold sincerity of purpose and a charitable attitude is what makes a man.
She started crying when I explained this to her. She will insist on raising her children in the Mormon church. I can't quite put my finger on it. Our communication is mostly via texts, but he keeps me in the loop at work, and I do the same. I decided to sort of play along because she was amazing and I didn't believe some of the things she was telling me she actually believed.