Your girlfriend might, or maybe IS, going through this. The dots are extremely close for every LDS person, its just extremely hard to connect them. I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens. He will have to wait outside if his children marry in the temple.
Neither of our children ever considered medicine as a career after seeing how much their dad missed out on. While a part of me is sad about not having a temple marriage and getting sealed together I have hope that this could change while we are on this earth and I have faith in an ever-loving Father in Heaven who is kind and just and will be able to provide a way for my family to live together in the eternities. I thought I could do it, but the isolation, loneliness, and depression are much worse than I expected. Just an idea, I have no idea what would actually work for her. You I think are ok with that. You may look on here and see all of us, but a lot of us got out much much older. A grandpa sense of humor and occasional clever line from an old movie go a long way. If you are married to your best friend, then love him unconditionally, share the struggles, accept the sacrifices and know that if he could, he would rather be with you than with a sick or dying patient.
My husband has the benefit of having his cake and eating it too. I married a person, not a religion. If after all these suggestions you're thinking "в But I really like her.
My husband did his best to do the same though a medical career makes it a challenge. We see each other about once every ten days, or times a week at most when his schedule is lighter. But what I discovered surprised me. He is an Anesthesiologist. I can't emphasize this strongly enough. Where do you find Mormon girls. Mormonism is an all-in religion. Propagandists in the media throw around the word patriarchy as if it is synonymous with anything male.