Hi ladies, I'm looking for some advice. This is something that's very important to her, and it's difficult to be married to someone who doesn't share the same values. Is this a sign of my own weakness. I would not fear as much as she does, but that is her reality. He is truly my soulmate and I shudder to think that if I had not chosen to marry outside of the church, I would not have had this life with him.
Is he willing to, nay, interested. On top of their day job, they also have to read volumes upon volumes of medical journals to keep up with their profession. Thank you for your sacrifice. I don't think I could let that happen.
I am now 40, I have been seeing this man now my husband for 17 years. So I am a female senior pre-med student. IF she becomes an Atheist free thinker like you then consider keeping her. MinsPackage speaks the truth. I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. And as much as I love my boyfriend with my whole heart, I can see now that sadly maybe I might have to reconsider a life married to him. Then she can have a chance to actually be the individual she is, and they can have an adult conversation about their future and whether or not they have one. She's a wonderful person and I think we could work, so yes. I just pray daily that no matter what we end up doing we are 30 min or less away from each other.
If she expresses interest in converting, be prepared to talk about your beliefs, and help her find ways to learn about and follow them. At the very least, I might have tried to persuade my husband to pursue a different career, if only a less-demanding area of medicine. Because she will think that all of a sudden she is going to hell for being human, that's mormon sexual repression.