In many areas, I crave consistency. I like when the subway comes on time and how my hair will be reliably perfect on the third day since my last wash. Sometimes the lighting is dim or the camera lens on my phone is dirty. Other times, I can't convince my face and body to do something sexy at the same time. The result is always a weirdly cropped, uncomfortable-looking photo that I'd rather delete than send to anyone else. And that sort of defeats the purpose of a nude selfie—at least, the ones I'm taking. Instead of continuing to suffer from my chronic inability to take a hot nude, I turned to the experts: three New York City-area boudoir photographers who set, light, and shoot sexy photos as their actual jobs. Then I did an IRL boudoir shoot with one of them. Their first lesson: Mood matters, as much as any pose or facial expression.

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After my initial interviews, I had the chance to model in my very own boudoir shoot.
Updated: February 12, References. Snapping a few sexy photos of yourself can be a lot of fun and help you feel more beautiful and confident in your skin. Before you start taking those photos, do your hair and makeup, pick out some erotic garments, and set the scene for your photography session. Try to relax and have fun while you capture some new images of yourself.
First, I met with three boudoir photographers to learn the “rules” of boudoir.
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